• What Other People Think About You

    How do you describe your practice to others? When you are at a mixer and someone asks what you do, is there a momentary hesitation about promoting your skills? Why is that? I…

  • Perfectionism

    AKA the most common way we hold ourselves back. I recently had a mini-session where my client was telling me that she needed an entire day to complete one of the tasks on…

  • Impostor Syndrome #LawyerLife

    Many of my clients come to me suffering from “impostor syndrome.” They believe they don’t belong in their world. They aren’t “one of them,” they will never “fit in.” Underneath these beliefs are…

  • What’s the Worst That Could Happen?

    If given the opportunity, we will most certainly come up with reasons why we aren’t doing all sorts of things and we will BELIEVE all of those reasons. Becoming aware of this cycle…

  • Bravery

    When you approach your present state through the lens of your future dream, taking action isn’t scary, it is simply the next logical step.

  • Goal-ing

    One of the things I find so interesting about professional degrees, like a law degree, is that it often represents the end of our goal-making activities. Whether you ended up seeking an advance…

  • Failing Hard

    If you have a lofty goal that you are not pursuing, ask yourself why. What is the worst that could happen? You don’t achieve it? So what? What is it about that failure that…

  • Finding Your Purpose

    Your purpose often times has nothing to do with your day-to-day job. Trying to force your purpose to pay the bills is a good way to ruin that joy your purpose used to…

  • Want More. Fail More

    If I had a magic wand and told you that I could give you the career of your dreams, would you be interested? What if I told you I would give it to…

  • Why You Aren’t Taking Action

    You can choose what to think about your failures and how you think about it will drive how you feel about it and how you feel about yourself. Why are so many of…