• The Mistake Spiral

    The most common thing I see among associate attorneys is the fear of making mistakes. As attorneys, we can become so paranoid about making a mistake that we put a tremendous amount of…

  • Perfectionism

    AKA the most common way we hold ourselves back. I recently had a mini-session where my client was telling me that she needed an entire day to complete one of the tasks on…

  • The Standards We Keep

    With New Year’s Eve and new resolutions fast approaching, I have been thinking a lot about the challenges that often accompany new year’s resolutions. We can be our best advocate or our worst…

  • Jealousy

    All of those thoughts that drive the feeling of jealousy set us on a path of bitterness and anger. The actions that result from those types feelings serve only to confirm that we…

  • Fairy Tales and Happy Endings

    The truth is that even when we achieve our dreams, we still feel like crap half of the time. If you are striving toward some big goal, make sure that you have not…