• Feeling Unfulfilled

    “Success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.” Tony Robbins I rarely encounter a client that isn’t struggling in some manner to connect with her purpose. After so many years of working toward this…

  • The Mistake Spiral

    The most common thing I see among associate attorneys is the fear of making mistakes. As attorneys, we can become so paranoid about making a mistake that we put a tremendous amount of…

  • What Other People Think About You

    How do you describe your practice to others? When you are at a mixer and someone asks what you do, is there a momentary hesitation about promoting your skills? Why is that? I…

  • Impostor Syndrome #LawyerLife

    Many of my clients come to me suffering from “impostor syndrome.” They believe they don’t belong in their world. They aren’t “one of them,” they will never “fit in.” Underneath these beliefs are…

  • Non-Billables: The Key to Success

    Taking “time out” to make yourself and your career a priority…? Nonbillable work? Hard pass. Many of my clients are resistant to making themselves a priority. Time is money. I get it. I…

  • To Indecision or Not…?

    Lately, I had several clients who are struggling to make decisions. One client was struggling to select a topic for a presentation she was giving at a seminar. Another client was struggling to…

  • Selling Yourself Short

    I have been thinking a lot about our emotions and how it is so amazing that those subtle, invisible vibrations in our bodies drive everything we do. Everything we do is because of…

  • You Can’t Do That

    (and other nice things we tell ourselves) We all have our baggage and ugly thoughts we carry around. Even with all the skills I can teach you, you will never EVER do away…

  • Jealousy

    All of those thoughts that drive the feeling of jealousy set us on a path of bitterness and anger. The actions that result from those types feelings serve only to confirm that we…